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A reflection for me … how bout you?
Did you know that core values are the lens in which we view life? Our beliefs inform our core values, and our core values determine our behavior. By examining our behavior, we can often uncover underlying belief systems that we might not even realize are steering our decisions. It is possible to be living out a core value without actually realizing it!
Here are three questions to ask yourself to better understand your personal core values so that you can see God and yourself more clearly.
What are my core values and high values?
Sometimes we mistake our core values for our high values. For example, we might claim that one of our core values is trusting God with everything, yet we still worry. This reveals that while we hold trusting God as a high value, our true core value is the belief that God's not going to come through. It’s important that we have an honest assessment of our values so that we can see God clearly! In other words, high values determine how we talk; core values determine how we behave. Reflect on any areas in your life where your high values and core values are misaligned, and invite the Holy Spirit into those spaces.
What are repeated behaviors I find myself doing?
Behavioral patterns that you do on a consistent basis can inform your core values. An example of this could look like always being early to meetings, getting your work done on time, or never being the person people are waiting on. You can look at these patterns and come to the conclusion that you value timeliness. Take a look at some of your consistent behaviors and see if you can identify any core values. If you’re having a hard time, try asking the people closest to you.
Do my values allow me to dream?
Our core values should encourage us to pursue our God-given dreams and achieve our destiny. If you are struggling to dream, you might be facing a poverty mentality. A poverty mindset is an example of a core value that says there is never enough, you will always be in lack. If core values are the lens in which we view the world, then you can see how harmful this value could be. A poverty mindset will rob us of the truth that we are allowed to dream! It’s important to make sure that our core values line up with our identity as sons and daughters of God, embracing His promise of provision (Matthew 7:7–14).
If you’re new to understanding your core values, spend some time with the Lord to determine what they are and write them down. If you already know and are living out your personal core values, take it a step further by developing values for your family, business, or ministry. Remember, our core values are the lens through which we view life!
Much Grace,
Kris